Thursday, January 10, 2008

Well today was not as good as some of the previous days. Unfortunately, Mark was so agitated last night that he never fell asleep until five this morning. He did rest well then, but he now has a fever again and they are running cultures to find out why. Probably due to a urinary tract infection, but they did have to reinsert a catheter again. He has a good appetite and eats and drinks well. They are giving him between meal snacks and that helps too. He has a full time attendant which is nice. They have been wonderful with him and know just how to handle the problems. I help by feeding him and talking to him, etc. Today I was busy with paperwork and details, so it was good that he has company all the time.

He had his physical therapy appointment cancelled today, because he has been complaining of pain. They decided to re-xray his pelvis to determine what, if anything, has changed. Hopefully, it will be resolved soon. The doctor told me today that they expect that he will be here at least two months (March 11) before he could walk with aid, and it may take a little longer. Then they will determine the next course of action.

My accommodations are very nice and the people are very helpful. They only have two paid staff who are here during the day, and the other times, it's just family members like me living here in the Fisher House. I have met other moms and wives and with everyone in the same position, it's good to have people to relate to. One woman is here with her husband, but she has a son who had a severe brain injury due to a car accident several years ago, so this is her second time doing this. I can't even imagine going through this again.

However, I am told that all the things Mark is experiencing is normal and to be expected with the injuries he has and the move. The doctor told me not to be discouraged, because all through the treatment there are the occasional setbacks and they always overcome them. So we will just have to keep the miracles coming. Remember the catchword is BELIEVE!

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

Hi Ann,
It is so nice to hear the progress that Mark is making I know that this will take a long time but knowing Mark he is a fighter and he will keep going, everyone here Believes in him. I want you to know that a member of the pipeband has a home in Florida that they are willing to let you use if you need a place to stay, just let me know and i will put you in touch with them. If you need anything please let me know. We are all keeping Mark in our prayers. Best wishes for you and your family. Love Colleen

Anonymous said...

Mark, Ann and Rich,
We're so glad that you are getting settled in. It sounds like you are in good hands. There are bound to be adjustments. We are thanking God for His provisions for Mark's therapy, for your positive attitudes, for strength each day, for the many people praying for you and for the people who are showing you God's love. We will continue to pray for healing, strength and God's peace for your whole family. Thanks for the daily updates.
Ephesians 6:10 Be strong in the Lord and in His mighty power.
Love, Kathy & Bill

Anonymous said...

Hi Ann,

This is Kathy Underhill. You are constantly on the minds & in the prayers of everyone here in your Jazzercise family. With Debbie, Claudia and this site we feel connected somehow! It must be comforting to know that for now you can settle in one place while Mark continues his recovery, making it easier to help him. I read your letter at class & everyone enjoyed it. Please take care & my warmest thoughts are with all of you. Love Kathy

Anonymous said...

Dear Ann,
Mark and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. I know Mark to be a strong indivdual, and he will keep on fighting and working toward that recovery. Sarah was glad to be able to see and spend some time with Mark before she left the country. We all check your updates,thank you for them. Give Mark a hug from me. Linda

Anonymous said...

Mark, Ann, and Rich...
Our family has just found out about the accident through Bb Murphy at Ecolab. Our family extends our thoughts and prayers on a daily basis, and we Believe. May God be with him and bless him in every breath he takes in his recovery. May God be with the family and bless the two of you in the patience and strength needed to help in the recovery. Best wishes... Mike Haszto and family.